HimerosTV – Tantric Sex Date – Chris Harder and Windom Gold
Often people are curious about Tantric Sex. This video gives a glimpse into practices that you can try with a partner, packaged in a way that’s practical and applicable.
If you think tantric sex is about incense, kale and candles – think again.
In today’s video, we’ll learn how to have a real, practical tantric sex date. No candles required.
In general terms, tantric sex combines your sexual energy, heart energy and spiritual energy – and often results in heightened experiences of bliss. Sometimes even enlightenment. But all of that can sound abstract – so let’s start simple… by building your sexual energy.
Arouse each other and get closer and closer to cumming. Then, stop!
You’ll feel lots of sexual energy in your cock, begging to be released through ejaculation. Instead, squeeze the muscle you use when going to the toilet to pump the energy into your body. Your sexual energy will move from your cock to your body.
Next, let’s add some love into the equation. Start by gazing into each others’ eyes. Even if you don’t love your partner, find something in his eyes that you do. Let that love guide your connection, and melt that loving energy into your sexual energy. See how it feels different.
Now, let’s bring in some spiritual energy. It sounds a bit abstract, but try closing your eyes and imagine a star shining down on your head like a stage spotlight. Slowly breath that energy into your body. With each breath, you bring this white light further down your body… first to your eyebrows, then to your lips… and so on.
Holding this state of sexual energy, love energy and spiritual energy, look into your partner’s eyes. Approach your partner, and deeply feel this state of love-making – with all three energies playing at the same time.
Next, have your partner climb into your lap, facing you. In tantra, this is called the yab yum position – and it is yummy, indeed. Insert your cock into your partner, and imagine that – like you – he has an inner pipe through which his energy moves up and down the body.
As you thrust into your partner, imagine your cock is filling him up entirely. Imagine that you have a super massive cock…. And each time you breath in, the energy moves down your body, through your cock, into him – and out his forehead and back into you, making a circuit.
How does this feel? Does it feel like sex? Like a meditation or prayer? Some combination of both?
You may find yourself even getting light-headed. If it’s too much for you, you can stop at any time.
Keep playing with this energy, let it get steamier, more heightened, and at some point you might just get carried away with the pleasure. Let it take you, let it intoxicate you.
Let it take everything until there is nothing left… and in the nothingness, just be.